I think I'm not qualified to give advice (on anything) but when I was going through the roughest of times, I always remembered to wear sunscreen I always found support, entertainment, and place to get my head away from my problems and just to breathe for a bit, in fandom (specially since my RL bffs are here too) so... Find that one ridiculous thing that brings you joy and go there, as often as you can, while you're trudging through whatever challenges you. It's like: imagine every tiny problem as an epic quest: and you're the heroine in this journey, and you know the movie will have a happy ending so it's up to you to "re-dress" your troubles in monster's clothes and get slaying.
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I always remembered to wear sunscreenI always found support, entertainment, and place to get my head away from my problems and just to breathe for a bit, in fandom (specially since my RL bffs are here too) so...Find that one ridiculous thing that brings you joy and go there, as often as you can, while you're trudging through whatever challenges you.
It's like: imagine every tiny problem as an epic quest: and you're the heroine in this journey, and you know the movie will have a happy ending so it's up to you to "re-dress" your troubles in monster's clothes and get slaying.
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